Gavin supports Macmillan Cancer Support

Gavin (pictured), of Scholars Walk, said: "I had organised a party for my 50th to be held at the Red Lion in Hooe.

"On my birthday party invitations I had asked for no presents but donations instead to Macmillan Cancer Support. I had told my mum that was what I was doing and it brought a tear to her eye. She was very pleased I did that.

"In the card she wrote to me - have a nice party and thank you for your support. It was one of those birthday cards that when you open it, you break down in tears."

Marylin lived in Herstmonceux where Gavin and Neil grew up. Gavin then moved to Ninfield where he stayed 19 years before moving to Bexhill 18 months ago - he runs Pebblestone Kitchens in Little Common.

Gavin and Neil were 50 on September 5, and mum Marylin was to be 76 on September 7 but passed away two days before.

Marylin died 20 minutes into her sons' birthday and they were exchanging gifts when the undertakers arrived.

Gavin added: "Once the party got going it was a memorable evening, I have to say. We did silly things and we had karaoke ... we held a minute's silence for mum which was observed very nicely indeed.

"The funeral was a week later on September 12. It was a memorable week that we will never forget."